[Tom Mobley]

>>> "Even the mods can read the private messages you send through this site."

Nope. I don't think even an admin can do that. Not without going outside the forum software and digging through the databases directly. Not something anybody is going to be doing without being hit with a court order first. UNIX DBs are not what you would call user friendly.

 

[Tom Mobley]

^^^^^^^I think there's a clue here.....^^^^^

 

[Tom Mobley]

>>>> "oh and, sorry if I came across as a bit of a ricardo cabeza in the OP, I'm not normally like that"

In that case, it was me that did it. Or, you can assume it was me anyway.

It's in User Control Panel/Edit Your Details/Custom User Title or at the very bottom of that screen under First Name.