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My Daddy...........

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#1 ·
Passed yesterday morning....he had been sick a long, long time and in pain 24/7 even with morphine patches....I am so glad he is not hurting anymore, but I will eternally miss talking to him each Sunday.
My Sis had a "feeling" that she needed to see Daddy yesterday before work, which is highly unusual for her....she was there about 7am....talked to him then he fell asleep and she went on to work. The nursing home called her an hr later and told her that Daddy passed in his sleep. She is freaking....but she has her family there with her.
Daddy will be cremated and sent home to me where he belongs, he was and always will be a Missoura boy.
Tho' he would get a kick of HOW he is getting here.
He is in Texas now...but he will be UPS'ed home :D

I remember when faxes first came out....he was AMAZED!!
HOW did we get things done before, he would always exclaim!
Technology truly amazed him.
So the fact he's getting his "Ash UPS'ed" would tickle him I know :D

Am having a memorial service for him and then scatter him with his Mom and Dad. Will miss him terribly.

Ya know...he never got to ride in Butter Cup...maybe he and I will go for a run before i let him go. He loved to go fast, but didnt drive real good :D

Thanks for letting me vent some...would of been on last night, but Doc came by and knocked me out...wasn't doing too well.
Nice to live in a small town where the Doc makes house calls.

Take care ya'll..and let your loved ones know every day that you DO love them. Makes a difference. Stay safe.
rachael anne
 
#27 ·
Thanks so much ya'll....means so much to me,
i was thinking about him earlier and remembered once he had to use my Bronze '69 Charger cause his car was in the shop. I told him to be careful and start slow cause she was fast and it was hot..he might burn rubber.
He was always giving me **** for tearing up the tires :D
Said just cause gas was cheap did I think tires were???
well yeah, duh Dad.
anyhooo.....I showed him where everything was, he said I taught YOU how to drive young lady, i reminded him I had Drivers Ed...then he took the keys and proceeded to burn the tires like ther was no tomorrow! He was smoking in the church parking lot...yup the same church hes going to be memorialzed in next week :D he called me when he got to work and said "You know that was fun but i liked to pee'd my pants!" he then proceeded to tell me that car had wayyy too much power for me.
The poor man never got it did he? LOL
He was so proud of me with Butter Cup....he loved all the pics and the magazine article and all.
yup...we is going for a ride.:hurray:
thanks for all your loving kind words.
I knew i always had another family.
Most times ya'll are better than the real thing!!!
hugs to all - rach
 
#30 ·
I am sorry for your loss but just look back on all the great times you had with him and that will help you thru the hard times.
My thouhgts and prayers are with you and your family.

Andy
 
#36 ·
Sorry to hear about your dad. It has been decided that when my dad dies im going to put his urn in the passenger of that Chevelle, open a cold beer, and do a giant tire roasting burnout. :D But I hope to not have to do that for a long time.
 
#39 ·
Rachael,

Sorry to hear about your dad, but as said, with the amount of pain he had been in he is in a better place.

That said it's never an easy thing to lose someone you love.
Our parents raise us, nurture us, place bandaids on our boo boos, give us their love, their exoeriences and teach us right from wrong. They love us unconditionally and watch as we grow up and eventually leave the nest.
They are our heros, our mentors and our guides throughout our lives.

The nice thing is, we have all of those memories to cherish for the rest of our lives.

Rachael, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Take care and let us know if there is anything we can do.
We are, in a pseudo way your extended family and are here for you.
 
#41 ·
Rachel, may God give you and your family the strenght needed to tackle this difficult time. Our prayers will be with you and your family.
I was unfurtunate because I did not have a father during my life. For those of you who still have your father alive go give them a hug and a kiss.
 
#49 ·
Losing a loved one is tough, Rachael, but especially so when it's a parent or child. My most sincere condolences, Hun. I've got a big hug for ya, next time our paths cross! In the meantime, know that I love you and will keep you and your Daddy in my prayers.
 
#50 ·
Racheal Anne, I'm so sorry to hear of your daddy's passing. It sounds like it finally brings relief to his constant suffering, and that is a mercy. My condolences to you for your loss. It is good that you are looking at the positive side, and that you will finally take him for a spin in Buttercup.

Isn't it strange how your sister got the strong urge to go and see him just before he passed on. I've experienced the same phenomenon with a friend who died. I couldn't explain it, I just had a very strong urge to call him or visit him. I never got the chance because around that time he was leaving this world.