As said, I had lower intake gasket problems in my '92 Lumina; and that was pre-Dexcool. It's not the Dexcool eating the gaskets--it's faulty gaskets.
Dexcool does (did???) seem to have problems with turning to jelly or even solidyfying. Never saw it personally, but I've heard lots of internet stories, (so it must be true.) And, of course the lawsuit. I think GM has issued service bulletins about Dexcool turning evil. Again, I believe it happens--but I don't think "contact with air" is the cause. Maybe contact with exhaust gas. Maybe contact with oil. Maybe it's contact with underage girls.
What I do know from personal experience: I slapped a crate engine in my work truck in--perhaps--2000. It's 2009, I have about 90 or 100 thousand miles on that engine now. I have the same Dexcool; and it looks just fine. Heater works great; and I used to run a 205 thermostat year-round and NEVER had an overheating problem even when towing my small boat.
Yes, I'm aware that coolant should be flushed now and then. Yes, I'm aware that coolant can "look" good but still be worn-out. Perhaps I'll flush it this summer. Seems prudent. Even so: I, personally, have had Z-E-R-O problems with Dex in my truck; and in my '03 Trailblazer.
Do "aluminum engines" need special coolant? I don't know why. Buick and Olds had aluminum V-8 blocks and heads in '62. Think GM used "special coolant" in THEM? How about Buick and Pontiac aluminum timing covers? They've been a fact of life since the '60's too. Yes, they do corrode. First Guess: it wasn't because the coolant wasn't "special". It was because the coolant didn't have a proper ratio of anti-freeze; or because it went twenty years without getting flushed.