Oregonchevelle,
Just to let you know that the Red RTV seems to be holding for me, at ordinary driving. I've only taken the car upto about 55-60 mph, and haven't revved it past about 3500. But the leak area is completely dry to touch, and it was previously a pretty significant leak. It's the first time my clutch shroud has started to look like it's drying out!
I cleaned the rear of the engine with mineral spirits until it was really clean (no color on a clean rag), then went into the seal area with a mineral spirits-soaked toothbrush. After that, I cleaned everything again with acetone, and used an acetone-soaked toothbrush in the seal. After that using a mirror to see what I was doing, I applied the Red (Permatex) RTV with my fingertip, to push the RTV into the seal several times. Finally, I put a thin layer on the outside, letting it adhere to the seal area. I let that sit for over 24 hours before starting the engine.
Like I said, this is ONLY a temporary fix, and it just makes me feel better until I can repair the seal properly. The good news for me is that I don't see any oil coming out from other areas either.