Unless absolutely necessary, spacers should be avoided because they prevent the converter from seating in the crank pilot hole. Theoretically, the three bolts should center the converter. Hardly as accurate as with the pilot, especially when reduced contact surface, along with increased side to side leverage starts playing heck with the flexplate, wallowing out holes and/or causing cracks.
If the application includes motor plate mounting, special spacers are available through many of the manufacturers.