The sand your using doesn't have the sharpness this type of sand does. But you should use supplied air for this. I'm not sure what all play sand has in it, but I would recommend supplied air for any blasting, its not only the media that gets you it whats on the frame that goes airborne.
I blasted a frame about 20 years ago with this type of sand, without supplied air, just a regular building supply type respirator, plus a few other parts, and I still breathe okay, I quit smoking about two years ago, but I smoked steady for 54 years.
A friend of mine blasted his Camaro on the underside with just a face shield on, that was about 15 years ago, he's probably 50 years old, and he's smoked his whole life, and still does, it hasn't hurt him.
Black beauty and black magnum and some of that might not hurt you as bad as sand, its all coal slag, which has a touch of tritium in it, but low enough levels it shouldn't hurt you any. They don't like to mention that.
It sounds like you will get it eventually the way your doing it, kind of slow, but were all hobbist for the most part, so it really doesn't matter.
Anybody you know you could rent supplied air from and go to this more aggresive sand, would a rental company have one for sewer work or hazardous clean up, I don't know if service tech or what ever you call them, the guys you call in for septic tank backups and things like that.
I'm not saying its okay to use this sand without supplied air, I never would again, but just telling you my experiences with it.
Anyway, good luck.
Rob