I posted what is below in the Bench Racing section Looking for Gary, when I learned he had passed. I too, never met the man.
But, Talked to him numerous times on the phone. He sounded like a true friend you would always want. I had asked for some one to do a welfare check on Gary and jrs396 came through.
"I knew Gary was battling bladder cancer and with him bring off-line, I feared the worst. Now you have confirmed my fears.
I just wish there was something I could do for his wife Helen and family, But, being 3000 miles away makes it difficult.
May Gary rest in peace knowing he has completed his journey enriching the lives of others he has touched.
Rest in peace Gary. May God Bless You! "