Re: gf left me out of the blue
Well, oddly, if it wasnt to have kids..... I likely would have stayed a soldier and "rented" my "wives" a couple of hours at a time. Theoretically. But we arent designed to be alone, that much I know to be true. I have two great men now, as kids. That is worth the PITA aspect of any relationship. (And I'm not calling Tommy wrong or selfish....its a FREE country... to each his own.......)
Can we? Sure. It is the natural way?> no, we are like DUCKS. we are meant to be paired. Dont always work in the "natural way" as we've evolved into some dreadfully unnatural creatures at times. ( sis and I were raised by a single dad.. as mom was a freak) .
Do any of you recall the phrase " a natural man" or " a natural woman" that was oft heard in the 60's and 70's. I think they're extinct now. The internet and fakebook done killed 'em all.
I dont know if this is valid, but in the past, I've never had luck "looking for Mrs Right". Now, Gary and I are near the same age, so things are different than a 25 or 30yr old. But, somehow, I think it still holds true....dont "try too hard" bud. Solemates come without asking. Or they dont. I got lucky with my wife of ...almost...28 years. She fell into my lap after I nearly killed a man over the cheating bit$$ I was married to. ( dont fret, was only going to knee cap the old man she was gestucking).
Be easy Gary. Lang has some great " close that damn chapter" advice. Move forward, dont look back. Nothing back there for ya.
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