Re: gf left me out of the blue
That happened to me way back when. It hurt like hell. She wasnt living with me though. As years went on, Ive had girlfriend's that were better than her!. I always thought at the time that if she hadn't left me then ,Id probably been married, and who knows, divorced from her. And I would of missed out on the other relationships. Be glad you weren't married and this happened. Hang in there and move on. Youll meet someone else without even trying. For your ex to just dump you out of the blue just shows how rotten she is.
I dont know the laws of tossing out her items she left behind,but Id find that out first, or next she might take you to court for that. Good luck with everything.